As of a minute ago, this site has received over 40,000 hits in the past 24 hours, and this story has spread to over 100 blogs and many more hundreds of message boards and email lists. The story's spread from here and DailyKos to countless infertility/miscarriage blogs, to Fark.com, to Atrios and Air America Radio and beyond. I have only begun to scratch the surface of reading the discussions that this has spawned in the blogosphere, but I'm grateful for the response and thankful for the attention that this legislation has been given. Some thoughts:
A few people have written, essentially, "Why make such a big deal out of this? This bill is SO bad it will surely die in committee, or get voted down, or get vetoed." Sure, bad bills get introduced in every legislature. But some of them become law, and sometimes they become law because ordinary citizens weren't aware of them before they became law.
One commenter wrote, "Eternal vigilance is the price of liberty."
Unfortunately, this recent vigilance has kept me awake for far more than 24 hours straight, and I need to drive my parents to a family function many hours away tomorrow, so I'm not going to be able to do justice to this update right now. I didn't want to wait to post this update, though, because it is so important.
I am delighted to report that Delegate Cosgrove has contacted me directly about HB1677. Delegate Cosgrove has been inundated with calls and emails today in response to the viral spread of this story via the internet, and he is doing his best to respond to them.
He has asked me to share his email with you here, and I do so with thanks to him for his time and thought in composing it (emphasis mine):
Dear Maura:
I am Delegate Cosgrove and I wish to respond to your website and the allegations that have been made by those who have emailed and called my office. The intent of House Bill 1677 is to require the notification of authorities of a delivery of a baby that is dead and the mother has not been attended by a medical professional. This bill was requested by the Chesapeake Police Department in its legislative package due to instances of full term babies who were abandoned shortly after birth. These poor children died horrible deaths. If a coroner could not determine if the child was born alive, the person responsible for abandoning the child could only be charged with is the improper disposal of a human body.
The requirement for the twelve hour notification timeframe comes from the method that a coroner would use to determine if the child had been born alive or dead. After twelve hours, it becomes next to impossible to determine if the child was alive due to decomposition gasses that build up in the body.
My bill in no way intends that a woman who suffers a miscarriage should be charged for not notifying authorities. The bill in no way mentions miscarriages, only deliveries. However, after discussing the bill again with our legislative services lawyers, I have decided to include language that will define the bill to apply only to those babies that are claimed to have been stillborn and that are abandoned as stated above.
I would never inflict the type of emotional torture on a woman who has suffered such a traumatic event as a miscarriage by making her notify authorities of her loss. I would also never impose criminal sanctions on a woman who has gone through this loss. And I am confident that the General Assembly of Virginia would also not pass such a terrible imposition on a woman. My mother experienced several miscarriages and I have other friends who have been devastated by losing their children through miscarriages.
On a final note, your website advocates the use of emailing comments to my office. As for the emails that I have received, I have answered a few and will forward a similar explanation to those who sent them. I always seek to receive emails that express a point of view either in support or in opposition to an issue. The majority of emails I have received from this site, however, have been extremely abusive, condescending, and mean-spirited. That is never the way to communicate with another person and I hope that civil discourse would be your desire as well.
I hope that you will post this explanation on your website and understand the original intent of this bill. If you feel the need to discuss this matter more fully, please do not hesitate to call. Thank you for your time and consideration of this matter.
Sincerely,
John A. Cosgrove
I have sent him an initial reply thanking him for his thoughtful response, and I plan to spend some time tomorrow night or Sunday in composing a more substantive post which addresses the information he provides here and asks him questions about the revisions he plans.
For now, Delegate Cosgrove, if you're reading, the most important thing I want to say is thank you for listening to the concerns of so many people, even those who expressed their concern angrily or even abusively. I am heartened to hear that you plan narrow the scope of HB1677 to more closely fit your stated intent.
If you'd like to continue this dialogue with Delegate Cosgrove, please consider sharing your questions or concerns in comments. This issue has brought together so many people in a positive way today - Republicans, Democrats, Greens, Libertarians, pro-choice, and pro-life commenters found much common ground in objection to the original format of the bill. I think that's a Good Thing, as is Delegate Cosgrove's outreach to us here.
If you all could continue the eternal vigilance while I sleep now, I'd appreciate it. :-)
Maura,
Thank you from those of us who were so alarmed and mobilized by your detailed attention to this issue and your willingness to stay on it. It's good to hear that Delegate Cosgrove has taken to heart the reaction he has received due to your alertness, and plans to take action accordingly. You sparked a storm that directly resulted in change for the better. Was it a tempest in a teacup? Perhaps, but thankfully we'll never know whether it could have turned into a furor that reached beyond the borders of your state because you and the people you reached altered the course of that tide.
It's unfortunate that people may have been less than polite in expressing their views about this to Delegate Cosgrove. However, he needs to consider that they way he characterized the e-mails he felt were out of line, "abusive, condescending, and mean-spirited," represents precisely how many of us viewed the bill, as it was drafted and presented to the public by him, in its potential impact on women.
It's also somewhat disingenuous of him, in my opinion, to state that "The bill in no way mentions miscarriages, only deliveries," because of the definition of "fetal death," the term he used in his bill and that you provided and linked to in your earlier posts, in the State of Virginia. A case could be made that a woman "delivers" the result of a spontaneous loss of a very early term pregnancy -- it must leave her body in some manner -- and not have it be what the State has defined as a "live birth," which I assume is what he meant in his response to you. For that matter, a "stillborn" baby, if not also precisely defined in conjunction with the revised bill, could be construed as a miscarriage. A sharp lawyer could cut in half the number of situations to which his bill would apply with a good argument, rendering the law far less meaningful.
If he is going to be upset by the words people use to express their opinions to him, he should use words far more carefully in the laws he crafts; laws that have the potential to affect the lives of thousands of people (and not just women, certainly) who gave him the ability to enact those laws. We ARE all watching and being vigilant, because the last year has taught us that we must, and that we must use the tools that are available to us to let people know when something undesirable is happening.
On a personal note, thank you for visiting my blog and reading my post relating to this issue. I appreciated getting your comment and learning that you would have updates that I can also pass along to my readers. It has been great getting familiar with you and your site and knowing that women everywhere are looking out for the best interests of all of us.
Posted by: Maura (in CA) | January 08, 2005 at 05:14 AM
Maura in VA: Great job - get some sleep. Drop me an email - I'll buy you a coffee sometime.
Maura in CA: Also great job. I particularly like your response to Cosgrove complaints about the nasty emails he got. Then don't write nasty legislation, buddy! Words are words, politics is a tough business, but laws have the coercive power of the state behind them, and as a woman in Virginia I am appalled that such a recklessly privacy-invasive misogynistic bill was being proposed.
Posted by: Medley | January 08, 2005 at 08:09 AM
I just posted some links on my site to the Rockridge Institute's info sheet on Slippery Slope Strategic Initiatives (which I'm convinced this is). Anyone who wants to stop by to link through to read it is welcome.
Also, as much as I dislike Cosgrove's whiny complaining about the language in emails he's received, it bears repeating what members of minority communities have known for years: We have to be better than our opposition. So please, let's take the high road with our language.
Posted by: Moxie | January 08, 2005 at 09:08 AM
This is a success story. The bill's language will be clarified and Del. Cosgrove has been made aware that we are watching. Whatever the intent of his bill, the initial language showed blatent disrespect for the rights of women. Can we come together like this to oppose legislation that doesn't seem as outrageous but actually is? Like parental notification of abortion laws that require young women that may incur the wrath of, at the least, unsympathetic parents or, at the most, abusive parents for excercising control over their lives? Great work everyone out there who told Del. Cosgrove what's what. Especially you Maura.
Julie
Posted by: JulieIde | January 08, 2005 at 09:52 AM
Included in my e-mail to Del. Cosgrove this morning, which I think is a point we could start hammering:
"Second, I wonder if a more effective way of preventing trashcan babies would be to have a public education campaign about Virginia’s ‘Safe Haven’ law, S.B. 1057 incorporated into S.B. 1151. As the law went into effect quite recently (July 1, 2003), it is not unreasonable to think that many constituents of child-bearing age are unfamiliar with the law. Knowledge that they could safely deliver their living newborns anonymously, and without legal repercussions might be sufficient in preventing the deaths of these newborns. I think we can both agree that preventing the deaths of these newborns would ultimately be a greater moral good than effectively prosecuting their parents after they have died.
I would appreciate any information and clarification you could provide on this issue."
Posted by: Amy | January 08, 2005 at 10:54 AM
What an unbelievable success story. Thanks, Maura, for bringing this to all of our attention.
Posted by: Cat | January 08, 2005 at 12:39 PM
Amy, good for you for including that. I'm constantly surprised by the number of well-informed people I know who have NO clue what a Safe Haven law is, and I attribute this to lack of publicity and education about such laws. (The issue was mentioned briefly on "Without a Trace" the other night, but as far as I know, there was no PSA after the show about it.) I am not going to theorize about what the original intent of Cosgrove's law really was, but the fact remains that babies are abandoned not infrequently and die as a result. It took a lot of work to pass those Safe Haven laws -- every young woman living in a Safe Haven state should know that they exist as an alternative.
Sorry if I sound preachy. :) Thanks, Maura!
Posted by: marion | January 08, 2005 at 01:53 PM
Did the guy even read your blog posts on this subject? He writes:
"On a final note, your website advocates the use of emailing comments to my office...The majority of emails I have received from this site, however, have been extremely abusive, condescending, and mean-spirited..."
Ummm...no, you didn't advocate any such thing. What you did say was:
"...If you find this bill as offensive as I do, what can you do now? A few ideas...
If you live in Virginia, join me in asking Delegate Cosgrove how his bill will benefit the people of the Commonwealth.
If you live in Virginia, write to your Delegate and State Senator to express your views on this bill and demand that they oppose it.
Contact the Democratic candidates for Lieutenant Governor in Virginia and let them know that you will expect them to oppose this bill and will consider this in your voting decision in the primary..."
Like it's your fault he's getting a few emails with some rough language. Maybe if he hadn't proposed such a poorly thought out piece of legislation, he wouldn't be dealing with a shitstorm now.
Keep doing the Wendell Phillips thing - you rock!
Posted by: Christine | January 08, 2005 at 02:04 PM
I took a closer look at his email and I wouldn't relax just yet.
Posted by: ema | January 08, 2005 at 02:52 PM
Delegate John A Cosgrove, the same man who is the Chief Patron of HJ 586, Constitutional amendment; marriage may only exist between a man and a woman?
http://leg1.state.va.us/cgi-bin/legp504.exe?051+mbr+H143L
His bio? Born in Montgomery, AL, Baptist, served in military.
http://dela.state.va.us/dela/MemBios.nsf/0/edafc52bfefcf8fd85256f7e00694fda?OpenDocument&Click=85256823005F1997.f3ec5270fd6ab58e85256b06006d8aec/$ViewMapLayout/0.225E
I'd watch him very closely.
Posted by: Kerstin | January 08, 2005 at 05:36 PM
MaurainVA, certainly don't need any more input by now. Phenomenal kick ass job re:awareness, alerting, networking, etc"
proud to know ya and as the post above stated I would also "..watch him very closely"
Posted by: kimmy | January 08, 2005 at 07:20 PM
Maura...
I came across your blog through Chez Miscarriage... I immediatly posted on my blog. Thank you so much for getting this message out so women CAN make a difference!
I agree with Kimmy above and think we should contine to "watch him very closly" and make sure the bill is worded properly to protect the privacy and emotional well being of women who have lost a pregnancy at any gestational age.
Thank you for helping us stay aware...
Posted by: Jamie | January 08, 2005 at 07:48 PM
I found you through Kerstin at Homegrown Daisy and just want to say THANK YOU for addressing this and being a force for positive change.
Rock on.
Posted by: Laurie | January 08, 2005 at 08:51 PM
Thank you for this update, and for the initial information (which I found in a friend's journal). This has definitely made progress in the last day thanks to you. There are still measures he can take to address his stated intent, though, such as limiting it to deliveries that would have been viable (third trimester?) and getting rid of the class-1 misdemeanor he says he didn't intend. But really, education about Safe Haven will do much more than this; after all, if you can reach people to inform them of this law, then you can reach them to inform them of alternatives to trash cans!
Posted by: Monica | January 08, 2005 at 09:38 PM
well done ladies - that is awesome !
That is so inspiring !
Hoep you have a great weekend :)
Posted by: heroinegirl | January 08, 2005 at 09:39 PM
Way to go Maura!
YOU have the power!
Posted by: Jessica | January 08, 2005 at 11:45 PM
Thank *you* Maura. No problem--feel free to use whatever you need.
Posted by: ema | January 09, 2005 at 12:25 AM
After reviewing Cosgrove's subsequent replies to outraged citizens, I can only conclude he's a lying bastard. A cursory review of VA law reveals numerous sections dealing with child abandonment, any of which could be easily amended to accommodate the deaths of full term babies abandoned shortly after birth.
Posted by: Steve | January 09, 2005 at 08:02 AM
I'm quite sure that Steve is correct. I wrote another email to Cosgrove (this time very much the Southern lady so that his easily bruised feelings would not get hurt. I asked him about whether Virginia had a Safe Haven law. I did not know until I read the comments here that one took effect in 2003. Cosgrove should be strongly encouraged to put in a bill to fund public service announcements about that law.
It is not cynical to believe that this was an attempt at "slippery slope" legislation.
Well done, Maura! A good project for us might be to look closely at the legislation being introduced in this session of the General Assembly to see what other garbage the radical Righties might be trying to slip past.
Elaine
Posted by: Elaine in Roanoke VA | January 09, 2005 at 09:58 AM
Let's keep a close eye on this bill. It may never get rewritten as the Delegate assures.
Has anyone independently checked with the sheriff he cited about the particulars of the need? I'll bet it's being misrepresented....or there are already other laws covering it.
Posted by: Robin in Richmond | January 09, 2005 at 10:12 AM
Thank you from a California Mom. My 13 year old daughter and I were outraged with this proposed legislation. Both of us are impressed with your diligence and my kiddo is inspired.
All the best from a Pro-Choice Mother and Daughter. Now please get some rest.
Posted by: GraceD | January 09, 2005 at 11:48 AM
I will feel a lot better when this bill is pulled. And those who wrote it are investigated, and the Chesapeake Police Department should also be investigated for suggesting such a stupid bill.
I cannot but wonder if this is some sort of christian right mask for restricting abortions.
Posted by: Magnum Serpentine | January 09, 2005 at 12:04 PM
Maybe Cosgrove should add a stipulation that all men be required to contact the police if they use a condom and it breaks...so the State and Mr. Cosgrove knows if a potential fetal emergency might be ensuing. We don't want that woman to a have a chance to commit the crime of fetal death with a morning after pill.
Posted by: pax | January 09, 2005 at 12:39 PM
Take a look at this site: http://thewelltimedperiod.blogspot.com
Posted by: Anne M. | January 09, 2005 at 12:52 PM
Maura,
Check into the way Arizona does it and propose this. We had the same issue with trash can babies and they started a program in Tucson where a mother can drop her baby off at any hospital (I think within 24 hours) confidentially and there are no consequences.
Since it has gone into effect, it has only been used a few times, but those few times saved those babies lives and the mother was not punished for it. Familes then adopt the babies. The biggest impact is there haven't been any more trash babies on the news from frightened mothers and fathers (usually young kids) who were too terrified to think rationally. This gives them and their babies a safe haven. There was a lot of controversy by extremists that think any woman should not have any control over her body, but once the program went into effect, there have been no issues. I think the fear was they would be getting thousands of drop offs but that is not the case. This is truly a Prolife program in every sense.
Thanks for posting this.
Cheryl
Posted by: cheryl | January 09, 2005 at 12:59 PM